I offer writing, peer support, & consulting for people—especially queer, disabled, and chronically ill folks—trying to build a life inside systems that weren’t built for us. Through language, listening, & presence, I create space for reflection, connection, and collective transformation.

I offer writing, peer support, & spiritual consulting for people—especially queer, disabled, and chronically ill folks—trying to build a life inside systems that weren’t built for us. Through language, listening, & presence, I create space for reflection, connection, and collective transformation.

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What I Do:

After years of working in academia, healthcare, and clinical research, I shifted toward work that serves others: patient advocacy, death work, writing, education, peer support, etc. I offer workshops and consultations centered on access, consent and care. I speak and write about my intersectional identities to bring further representation to the mainstream

What I Believe:

You don’t need to be fixed to be worthy of love or care. Your body isn’t broken—the systems we live in are. Fat liberation, disability justice, and health at every size are frameworks that inform everything I do. See Ethos below for further details.

When I’m Not Working:

I live in Brooklyn with my spouse and our two dogs, Mayo and Kaia. I love to dance, sing, dote on my chosen family and evangelize the gospel of Shrek to those who will listen. If you’ve found your way here, welcome.

My ethos:

Above all things, I lead with love.

As someone who belongs to intersectional marginalized communities, I want to build safer, more equitable futures for us. I hold abolitionist, anti-racist, anti-fascist, anti-oppressive, anti-capitalist, and anti-colonial values. I believe in collective liberation through radical means. We do not exist in isolation, and my work focuses on facilitating care for all of us because we are not free until we are all free. Black lives matter. Imperialists built our systems to oppress those of us who are not cisgender, heteronormative white men. I approach both my creative and community work as acts of disruption and devotion. Whether I’m writing, facilitating, offering peer support, or practicing spiritual care, I root into what is relational and reparative. I am committed to dismantling the systems that dehumanize us—white supremacy, ableism, imperialism, fatphobia—and to building alternatives where healing and joy can take root.

As a student social worker and longtime death worker, I hold space for grief, uncertainty, and becoming. I practice trauma-informed care that centers transparency, accountability, and slowness. I believe that honesty and integrity are essential not just in theory, but in practice. To truly live a good life, people must lead with integrity, honesty and empathy. I also think people must be communicative and transparent, and I lead my life and business with these values.

If you are looking for a CV or a resume, please e-mail me. I will send it to you upon request.

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