Here’s how we can work together.

I work with individuals, groups and organizations through teaching, editing mentorship and care.

Most people work with me in one of the ways listed below. Pick the one that sounds the most suitable for the type of working relationship you’re looking for, or write to me if you’re not sure or want to customize an offering.

For those looking for an affordable (free) way of consuming my work— check out free resources and writing at: is this what you want? (my newsletter)

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Workshops+Speaking

I offer an array of workshops, talks and group containers on writing, disability justice, polyamory (alternative relationships), relationship building and care. I can customize any of the offerings and referrals for integrated productions.

This offering is best for: organizations, conferences, festivals, universities and community groups looking to bring an intersectional, queer and trauma-affirming lens to their audiences.

Editorial Services

Project-based editorial work (manuscript review, line editing, personal statement coaching) and ongoing 1:1 writing metorship for writers committed to longer-term projects. I read submissions as an editor at Blood Tree Literature and edited over 100 medical school, residency (ERAS) and graduate school personal statements.

Best for: Writers working on memoir, essay, fiction or hybrid forms; graduate school applicants and anyone who wants a careful eye on their work.

Care Work

1:1 care consulting, patient advocacy and end-of-life support as a queer, certified (through Going with Grace) death doula in New York City. I work with chronically ill people, queer and disabled folks navigating healthcare, individuals and families planning end-of-life care and people interested in navigating alternative relationships (polyamory and non-monogamy.) Available by referral and to clients who can pay rate-for-time. Sliding scale considered for community on a limited basis.

Group Workshops & Offerings

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    Care Pa'inas (Potlucks)

    Curated potluck dinners with themes— bring something you love and are willing to share. Gather together with a handpicked group of people. Sometimes these potlucks have themes for connection, others are meant to facilitate friendships and community.

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    Self Care Salons

    It can be challenging to “adult” without the help of others. Self-care salons gather people who require peer support and camaraderie to do the hard things. I provide facilitation, resources, a space and some snacks. you bring your questions and whatever you want to share.

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    Personalised Education

    Over the years, I’ve amassed a wide array of resources that I use as reference and inspiration for educational workshops and classes. Such offerings include topics covering: astrology, care work, patient care advocacy, non-monogamy, interdisciplinary collaboration, LGBTQIA+ topics, RACK + PRICK in kink, amongst others...

Not sure which offering is right for you?

Get in touch and we’ll figure it out together.