I offer several ways to work with me.

I am here through 1:1 support, group containers (workshops, salons, other events), facilitating community connection and care, and/or consulting and providing education for organizations.

The topics below provide a starting point for consultation and working together. As every offering is unique and utilises a different set of skills from my toolkit, please inquire about rates upon consultation. I can accommodate budgets upon request, including a sliding scale.

For those looking for an affordable (free) way of consuming my work— check out free resources and writing at: is this what you want? (my newsletter)

Navigating Intimacy

Relationships are the bedrock to a content life. Perhaps the most important skill we must hone is learning how to create and maintain wholehearted relationships. As someone queer and polyamorous, I’ve learned many ways to dream up ways to facilitate intentional intimacy with others and myself. I’m happy to help support you and/or your partner(s) as you open up your relationship(s), maintain current connections, navigate situations and holding space for all parties involved. Sometimes you need a third party to listen to you. I’m able to help you using intuition, life skills, and knowledge gained over the years.

Care Planning & Health Advocacy

Creating a lifestyle that suits your personal strengths and supports you in the areas you find challenging is an ongoing balancing act. Whether you are depressed, neurodivergent, or disabled, I want to help you find affordable care and advocate for your needs. How do you articulate and express what you are going through? How do you wade through technical terms and speak the language of doctors and caretakers? How do you create healthy limits for yourself and ask for help in your care relationships?  Together we will craft an agile framework for your health that supports you through the good times and bad. 

Death Work & Grief Support

Loss is a hard truth that makes life meaningful. Today we have lost the art of preparing for loss, let alone the space and support for grief. As a death doula, I can help you with both. through end-of-life planning, vigil sitting, caregiver processing and facilitation. I can work with you in-person or online to guide you through the process with compassion.

I utilize Five Wishes as one of my main guidance tools in planning, and would recommend you check them out before working with me.

Group Workshops & Offerings

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    Care Pa'inas (Potlucks)

    Curated potluck dinners with themes— bring something you love and are willing to share. Gather together with a handpicked group of people. Sometimes these potlucks have themes for connection, others are meant to facilitate friendships and community.

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    Self Care Salons

    It can be challenging to “adult” without the help of others. Self-care salons gather people who require peer support and camaraderie to do the hard things. I provide facilitation, resources, a space and some snacks. you bring your questions and whatever you want to share.

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    Personalised Education

    Over the years, I’ve amassed a wide array of resources that I use as reference and inspiration for educational workshops and classes. Such offerings include topics covering: astrology, care work, patient care advocacy, non-monogamy, interdisciplinary collaboration, LGBTQIA+ topics, RACK + PRICK in kink, amongst others...

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    Event Production

    I can help you throw events! I produce events through the queer futurisms collective. Please inquire if you are local to New York City and need assistance with event planning and production.

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